This is part of the worship series, "Grounded and Growing—Bearing Fruit”Series Introduction | Ascension Sunday | PentecostLove | Joy | Peace | Patience | Generosity & Kindness | Faithfulness | Gentleness | Self-Control | Communion LiturgyAlso in this year-long Grounded and Growing series: Advent and Christmas | Epiphany | Lent and EasterKey Theme: Self-Control is the discipline to manage impulses and desires in order to live wisely and responsibly. After the more flowery, uplifting fruit of joy, peace, and gentleness, self-control feels like a somewhat grim way to end this series. Indeed, the scripture passages in this service aren’t ones we gravitate towards in our personal study or in preaching. But I don’t think it’s an accident that self-control is at the end of this list. If love is the primary characteristic of a follower of Jesus, providing the meaning for everything we do, then self-control acts as a closing bracket to this list, the framework that allows every other fruit to grow. In Titus 2, the Greek word for self-control is sophorono, which literally means “to be in one’s right mind.” The right mind is the mind which is set on God’s good design for the world, acknowledging its limits and boundaries. This stands in contrast to the attitude taken by many on the island of Crete, where Titus ministered, who gave themselves over to their passions and desires, indulging in drink, food, and sex. If we are driven by our desires alone, we become self-indulgent and selfish, impatient and demanding, and quick to become angry—the opposite of the fruit of the Spirit. So Paul tells Titus to urge followers of Jesus to control their words and actions. By doing so, this community would be a witness to their neighbors, demonstrating that the gospel they proclaim has made a true difference in their lives. Jesus expresses this even more stridently in Mark 9, when he uses hyperbole to caution people against letting their actions turn people away from the gospel. We’re to be in such control over our lives that we can cut off anything that causes us to sin and by sinning to misrepresent the gospel. It sounds harsh, but the invitation to self-control and limitation is the invitation to experience life as God intended. The psalmist declares that the boundary lines have fallen in pleasant places. Life in God’s creation is not one of wanton freedom but the freedom that comes from knowing we are safe within God’s care. In this garden, hemmed in on all sides, we can flourish and grow and bear good fruit. Service OutlineCall to WorshipLeader:The earth is the Lord’s and all that is in it,The world, and those who live in it; All:For he has founded it on the seas,And established it on the rivers. Leader:Who shall ascend the hill of the Lord?And who shall stand in his holy place? All:Those who have clean hands and pure hearts,Who do not lift up their souls to what is false,And do not swear deceitfully.—Psalm 24:1–4 NRSVUE Leader:Let us worship our holy God with reverence and awe!Opening Song“Only a Holy God” Farren et al.GreetingGrace to you and peace from God our Father andthe Lord Jesus Christ,who gave himself for our sins to set us freefrom the present evil age,according to the will of our God and Father,to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen. —Galatians 1:3–5 NRSVUESongs of Praise“Build My Life” Younker et al.Call to ConfessionMany plants require some kind of trellis or frame to keep them stabilized and upright, to help them grow tall, towards the sun, where they can bear fruit in abundance. Followers of God, called to bear good fruit, are no different. We need a trellis to support us—practices that support our faith, that give structure to our lives so we stay oriented towards the Son. Prayer, scripture study, fellowship with fellow believers, silence, worship—all these practices and more provide us with this support.Confession is one such practice—a way in which we re-orient ourselves towards God and ask that God might prune that which is dead or diseased in our lives and fill us instead with the lifegiving power of his mercy and grace. So let us turn towards God now in prayer.Prayer of ConfessionHoly God,You have shown us, in your Word, what is good.You have marked out the way we should go,set boundary lines for us in pleasant places,and commanded us to walk in the way that brings freedom and flourishing.But we think we know better. We think freedom means getting to do whatever feels right to us at the time.We chafe against boundariesand find structures and guidelines to be constricting. We don’t trust that you have given us these things for our good, O God.Forgive us our lack of trust.Forgive us when we are careless with our lives, when our actions and words are thoughtless and hurtful.Forgive us when our carelessness causes others to doubt the good news we preach. Help us to order our lives around your word and your truth, to structure our lives in such a way that the Spirit can bear much good fruit through us. Help us to build our lives on you.Through Christ, our Lord, we pray.Amen. Assurance of Pardon & Response of PraiseIn Jeremiah 33, God says of the people Israel: “I will cleanse them from all the guilt of their sin against me,and I will forgive all the guilt of their sin and rebellion against me.”—Jeremiah 33:8 NRSVUEBeloved of God, God forgives your rebellion, and cleanses you of all guilt. Return to him in gratitude, trusting in his goodness and mercy. Let us say together:All:Lord, you alone are my portion and my cup; you make my lot secure. Leader:The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. All:I will praise the Lord, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me. Leader:I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken. All:Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also will rest secure, Leader:because you will not abandon me to the realm of the dead, nor will you let your faithful one see decay. All:You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.—Psalm 16:5–11 NIVSong of Thanksgiving“If You But Trust in God to Guide You” Neumark, trans. WinkworthPassing of the PeacePrayer for IlluminationO Lord,as we turn to your word,give us understanding, so we might keep your lawand obey it with all our hearts.Give us delight in the path of your commands,and turn our eyes and our ears to your word,that our lives might be kept in your righteousness.Through Christ, our Lord, Amen. —Psalm 119:33–34, adapt.Scripture ReadingFirst Reading: Mark 9:42–50Second Reading: Titus 2Sermon“The Trellis of Self-Control”Song of Response“May the Mind of Christ, My Savior” WilkinsonBreath Prayer[The leader invites the Spirit's presence to fill our lives (as we breathe in) so that our lives might bear good fruit (as we breathe out). This prayer can be repeated a few times.] Breathe In: “Holy Spirit, fill us with your presence”Breathe Out: “that our lives might bear good fruit.”Prayers of the PeopleOffering, Offertory PrayerSong of Dedication“Take My Life and Let It Be” HavergalBenedictionAs God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, forgiving one another as the Lord has forgiven you. And over all these put on love, which binds them together in perfect unity. —Colossians 3:12–14, adapt.May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ,the love of God,and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you.Go forth and bear good fruit.Amen. Doxology“My Friends May You Grow in Grace” Diamond & MeaneyRevised Common LectionaryYear B: Season after Pentecost—Proper 21 (26)